What makes a good friend, great friend or the best? Do you have a good friend or best friends, the sort you can tell anything to, be yourself with and share your inner most thoughts?
How could I write todays theme without reffering to this series which was and still is huge. It is of course as the title suggests “Friends”
If for any reason you have not seen this, it is about a group of best friends and their lives together, their ups downs, togethers, apart, laughter, tears, the coffee shop, the couch, the apartments and the characters which many of us could relate to.
The question at school when I was growing up in the play ground or in class was often which friends character are you?
I thought “Joey” was the best because “Joey does not share food” and I am not one for sharing food
.If you have never seen an episode I do fully reccomend it and I think it is the best and available here on “Amazon” or “Google” “Friends”
Good friend Great friend or The best
I wonder when you think of the word “Friend” what words pop up when you think of it……. I am guessing mostly positive and if I asked you to think of a certain good friend who has or does mean a lot you can probably picture them.. what memories come to mind?
If I look on” facebook” I wonder if that definition of “friend” would fit those say on “facebook” or other forms of social media or even people at work, do you class them as friends? would you class any family members as friends?
Strong Good, Great Best friendships?
For me this sums up where I am at with good friends because I believe you are who you attract around you – and that matters.
Who do you attract in your life and add to your good friends list and why?
There is a saying “iron sharpens iron” we attract like minded people…friends who motivate us and just know our mindset, because these are the type that love us for who we are BUT….. are all our friends good for us? This may sound a crazy question to ask and may sound harsh but is it?
Healthy Good friendships V toxic ones
Some friends can appear “well meaning” some can appear to “share” your joy when in reality they “seethe”… some may gossip about you, and some may even hurt you because we allow them to get close and they know us inside and out – have you ever experienced that? and some “friendships” are “toxic” meaning that actually, thay may not be the healthiest or the “best for us relationships”
I wonder if different friends come into our lives for different seasons and reasons like the kind that are are so special and amazing but then dissapear!
Have you ever had any of those and you wonder where those people are now!
Grateful for Good, Great and Best friends
I think good friends really do make us and shape us, and as my mom n dad would say, choose your friends well and the company you keep wisely.
Huge thank you to all my my good friends past present and future. I honour you and thank you from the bottom of my heart BECAUSE
YOU KEEP ME GOING
You really are the greatest and Best!
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